Problems. The young age is often considered the best age of a man’s life

Problems

The young age is often considered the best age of a man’s life. It’s the time of opportunity. As a matter of fact, juveniles are usually full of energy and time which isn’t always supported by corresponding amount of money and wisdom. So due to lack of the latter, some significant problems arouse among youngsters.

It’s on the grounds that there’re lots of temptations in the world. Many of them give you joy, although there is a reverse side in them, quite often they maintain a lot of harm too. However, at this age you’re full of beans and you also have a deceptive feeling that nothing can affect your health. Lots of men agree with this idea and so become addicted to such pernicious stuff as cigarettes, drugs and alcohol. Many young men are addicted to alcohol as there’s an overall tendency for the Blr folk to drink excessive amounts of stiff drinks. Well, here’s some stats: a nation is reckoned a dying out one if its average citizen drinks 9 litres of alcohol per year. As for 2010, our compatriots drink 12.3 l. a person. People usually start smoking in a very young age which only makes the matter worse. Smoking leads to a wide variety of health problems: It contributes to a huge number of cancerous and cardio diseases. The link between the reduced life expectancy and smoking is beyond any doubt. So many of youngsters follow the path of bad habits and that is a problem.

Well, I think it’s necessary to come up with the question why they actually do so. The reasons may vary but I think the most trustworthy is stress. Being quite susceptible from the social point of view, many young people start pursuing unhealthy habits because of this. Well, for a young unexperienced man it’s much more difficult to find a job. Then they’re prone to be fired. In case a young man, has a family this creates supplementary problems.  

In fact, family problems may be also a clue to the issue of falling into bad habits. So trying to solve them, looking for the solution inside the bottle a man not only doesn’t approach it, but also does a lot of harm to his relatives. As mentioned earlier alcohol-related problems are a widespread phenomenon in Blr.  (No matter whether it is a physical or an emotional one, I guess if such a thing takes place, there is the only way out – to abandon the family. Unfortunately, it is closely linked with different kinds of addictions people are susceptible to. Therefore, it is quite relevant in particular for this country.)

This, unfortunately, entails physical and mental abuse, which is also a problem. If doesn’t go that far and just limits to quarrels there’s much fun in it to. Psychology assumes our personality is mainly based on our childhood experience. No child would be happy in a quarrelsome family.  Well, daily routine becomes unendurable in many marriages, which results in a high divorce rate. Successively, the birth rate decreases which doesn’t contribute to the state’s well-being at all. (However, in the reality apart from some waste of nerves, children are left in misery, which significantly damages them.)

In addition, another popular divorce reason is adultery or infidelity.

Sometimes two people just are blinded falling in love, but then as it subsides, there is nothing between them and they drift apart. There are many variations of this problem. Therefore, marriages without a concrete reason take place. It is noting, but an evidence that both the wife and the husband were not prudent and responsible enough. However, to err is human.

All the problems must be tackled. But there’s no solution anyway. Despair.